Learn when someone’s role in your life is over and let them go. You’re either helping each other or ruining each other. Discern when someone’s season in your life is over and release them. Else you won’t enter a new season in your life. When you start petty quarrels with your friends, their reason and season in your life may be over. If you hold on to them any longer, you’ll patronize each other’s progress.
While some friends are life-time friends, most people you meet along your way of life are seasonal. Learn to review your associations. Some friends you part ways because of shifting values. Others you part ways because of vision crash. And still others, you part ways because of your own growth. Valuable friendships are idea oriented. With friends who are equally progressive, you can be vulnerable.
Who are your 2021 friends? Are there relational debts you have Brought Forward (B/F) to 2021? Do you really take stock of the value your friends add or subtract from you? No matter what prophecy you received for 2021, if you don’t review your associations, you’ll have a repeat of your past years. You may turn your calendar leaf but you won’t turn your life around.
You’ll never rise above your associations. Your level of association determines your destiny. The income range of your best three friends is likely to be within 10% variance. If you truly want to know your values, cross-examine your friends. If you truly want to move to your next level, groom new relations. Associate more closely with people who don’t know your historical baggage.
From 2021, don’t walk with people who judge you from your history. Don’t try to prove anything to your relatives and childhood friends. Don’t try to convince your high-school mates anything. Don’t compete with your collegemates. It’s pointless. Many of your former colleagues don’t appreciate your growth. You don’t need to persuade them. Simply hang out with those who see the 2021 Version of YOU.
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